Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Utah : 家变..

不想发生的事, 终究发生了..而且比预期中来得快..
室友今天和老婆吵了一场, 情况很严重, 闹到要离婚, 抢孩子..
不是因为室友在外有别人, 只是为了去SHOPPING..很好笑吧..
话说今天从公司回来, 他就问她要不要去SHOPPING...她说不要..那就算了吧..
室友就开始玩PC..累了就想睡..就当他睡着时,她就吵着要去SHOPPING...很欠揙不是吗? 分明要找架吵..
然后她就开始把房里的东西乱丢, 电视也被推倒, 搞得房们都破了一个大洞..唉..

室友忍无可忍, 就告诉她要离婚..其实,这也不是第一次了..好的没的..她就会为一些小事和室友吵..
终于今天爆发了..看来室友立场很坚定..想他是不会让步了..
我不知道可以做些什么..就让他们冷静一下吧..

夫妻间, 不是应该互相体谅吗? 不是应该恩恩爱爱吗?? 有问题,就去解决吗?
不爱, 那就不要结婚嘛..离婚, 对双方都没有好处. 最惨的..不过是那个未满一岁半的小孩..

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爱人之间的相处..谅解和体会对方的感受很重要..信任更不用多说..
在这里, 看到了很多结婚后的悲剧..我不想这样而影响了我对婚姻的信心..
没有人喜欢吵架, 有时候一方让步, 并不是他认输或认错, 他只是不想把事情搞大..小事化无..
如果一方因为对方的让步而得寸进尺..结果往往会象火山爆发..一发不可收拾..

谢谢你一直一来的谅解 :)

9 comments:

  1. 谢谢"你"一直一来的谅解 r u referring to me? wahahah *blush*

    your title is freaking me out tot u were talking abt ur own family!!

    but never did i know they bicker that often..wishing them well here.

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  2. 哈,没有那么严重拉,你也想太多了吧

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  3. after a long arguement over the night..guess they are settling down..give them sometime to calm down..hopefully thing will turn out well..

    Pirate: haa..real life experience from others can reflect our future..sometimes it's worth to think about it..so, when is your turn to get marry? haha

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  4. pls tell ur housemate dun simply say divorce. 很容易会造成无法挽回的局面。no matter how hard u fight,dun say something will directly impact ur relationship.god bless

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  5. PY: I have no right to stop him. Everything just over his limit, so i understand his stand point..If divorce really can bring him a better life .. I would stand at his side..a happiness marriage need 2 hands to hold tight and build it up...if there's always only one hand that is playing part, it will not work out...Ya..God Bless~

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  6. ya i agree with py. No matter wht,try not to anyhow mention abt divorce..unhealthy!

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  7. 人在气头上,很难控制情绪,你以为酱容易控制哦,那种话很容易就讲的咯,所以吵架时,最好就是其中一方先离开,不要给彼此有机会。

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  8. haa...they are good now...
    think her wife finally realized she was wrong and the first time ever she admitted and say sorry to my housemate...

    WORLD PEACE~~~~

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  9. walao!!! if everyone like that also need divorce... emm~~
    my son must study LAW liao...
    sure earn big money!!:P

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